ADV. 15. DISCUSSING DIFFICULT ISSUES
1. DISAGREEING WITHOUT FALLING OUT 1) INFERRING RELATIONSHIPS AND ATTITUDES Identifying relationships Understanding the relationship between speakers helps you understand the tone they use when speaking to each other, and the tone you should use when speaking to them. In the following example, the speakers are cordial, as they have a business relationship that they hope to continue. I really appreciate the hard work that all of you at Blue Sky Inc. did on this project. Listening for opinions To understand people's opinions, look for expressions that introduce opinions—for example, I can't help but think that . In sophisticated discussions between business professionals, the language will often be indirect, so you will need to listen carefully. I can't help but think that closing that factory will have a terrible effect here. Listening for attitudes Many discussions will start with a discussion of a specific incident — for example, a compa...